The Emergency Shelter for Children is sponsored by Christians In Action, Inc. Open since 1977, the Shelter provides residential care for children and youth, ages birth through 17. The capacity of the Shelter is 12 children, with 45 days being the maximum length of stay for each child.
Since its existence, the Shelter has cared for more than 5,000 children. Referrals come from the Youth Court, the Department of Human Services and the Jackson Police Department.
Many of the children have been burned, beaten, sexually abused and are near starvation. Some are abandoned or in need of temporary placement pending foster care.
In addition to the basics - food, shelter, clothing and medical care - the Shelter offers a complete recreational program, and children are encouraged to participate in athletic and extracurricular school activities. Transportation to area schools and other needed services is provided.
Staff include the executive director, administrative assistant, social worker, twelve full and part time direct care employees, and a licensed clinical social worker who provides therapy.
- What is abuse
- Profile of an Abusive Parent
- Myth or Fact?
- Who Must Report Abuse?
What is Abuse
EMOTIONAL ABUSE is sometimes called "invisible abuse," since the abuse is mental rather than physical. It can be defined as "blaming, belittling, or rejecting," and produces a negative self image for the child.
CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE includes any kind of sexual act between an adult or older person and child.
NEGLECT is regarded as "failure to provide the essential for normal life: such as food, shelter, clothing, care and supervision, and protection from assault."
Indicators of Abuse
Unexplained bruises, especially in various stages of healing; old and new scars, marks which are indicative of the article used, i.e., a belt buckle, electrical cord, cigar or cigarette burns, glove- or sock-like burns, unexplained fractures, lacerations, and adult bite marks, social withdrawal, inappropriate sexual knowledge, sudden dislike of someone previously liked, extreme passive aggression, and venereal disease and pregnancy.
Profile of an Abusive Parent
•Their emotional needs were not met by their parents.
•They have low self-image.
•They are socially isolated and suspicious of others who may want to help.
•They do not have relationships based on love and respect.
•They may have problems with drugs and/or alcohol.
•Possibly they have experienced little success in life.
•They may have gone through a death or divorce in the family.
Myth or Fact?
Fact: The child is never to blame. The adult in authority is responsible for his/her actions.
Myth: Children are abused only by strangers.
Fact: 80% of abused children know their perpetrators.
Myth: The abuser is usually the step parent.
Fact: The abuser is more often the natural father.
Myth: The mother is unaware of the abuse as it occurs.
Fact: The mother is quite often aware, but tends to deny it.
Myth: The stigma is placed on the abuser, not the child.
Fact: The child becomes a victim for his/her lifetime.
Who Must Report Abuse?
•Choose a family code word and teach your children not to go with anyone who does not know the code.
•Teach your children about "bad" touch and "good" touch, and that no one should touch them on areas that would be covered by a bathing suit.
•Establish rules and guidelines for latchkey children to follow in case of emergencies.
•Check out sitters and child care facilities carefully.
•Listen to your child if he/she does not want to stay with someone.
•Monitor your child's internet access and teach them to never reaveal their name, address, phone number or any other personal information to ANYONE online. Keep computers in public areas such as the family room. Choose your child's screen name, email address, and instant message address wisely - don't reveal ages, sex, or hobbies.
•Report any suspected abuse immediately.